THE BLOGGER INQUIRER ISSUE # 17
"For Blogging Minds Who Need To Know" ...
HEATHER SCOT
DAILY CHANGES
*****INTERVIEWS*****
ADAM WARLOCK
WHAT WOULD YOU DO
How’s it going with the new baby in the house?
He’s healthy…no problems...just having another baby…crying and all…it’s a little hectic…he came a little early.
You had told me something about what I like to call
"Tag Team Parenting"….
Angie seems to be on a better vibe with Ian…the baby. I get my turn with him but she knows what she needs to do to make him feel better but I’m totally lost. It’s like I’ve lost touch with how to take care of babies…it is easier to deal with Marc. I can talk to him, he can respond. It’s more logical to me how to deal with him. We help each other but on a whole Angie deals with Ian and I deal with Marc…probably because he is more like me. I know how to deal with him.
Hey, you’re there and you are helping and being a great dad! Now, here’s something I think is interesting… how did you and your wife meet?
We met on the internet through a chatroom for the X-files. We kind of talked long before we ever saw it as a romantic relationship.
How long did that go on before you saw each other?
I met her pretty much after I got on line, which was in March and I went down to see her in September. I think our romantic relationship started about July.
You have an anniversary coming up don’t you? Are you doing anything special?
It’s the 22nd…our 7th anniversary…we are going to celebrate it on Saturday cuz that’s when we can get away from the kids. We usually go and eat…it’s just that I made plans entirely on my own without telling her. The last two we didn’t have a chance to get away. I have a surprise for her. I actually had this planned since last year.
Now about your blog….
Uh oh…
You have written about some, shall we say, interesting subjects…such as fetishes, domination, and cannibalism. Why?
I just KNEW that cannibalism thing was going to come up! (LOL)
Almost 20 years of growing up knowing very little about anything outside of the religion I was raised in…now I have an open mind about anything. I like reading and learning about everything. That’s why I start write about it all in the blog to share things that people find unusual. I’ve always kind of read these things but never shared them but now I have an outlet to share these things with other people to find what other people feel and thing about, like, cannibalism…this is a great medium where people can choose to read or not; or comment or not.
Are you thinking about cannibalism as a life-style change?
I would never kill someone but setting aside the whole real issue…I don’t see what the big deal is.
(still shuddering)
And about Bettie Page…how did you find her…have such an interest in her?
I actually learned about Bettie Page from online places that have cult classics…because a lot of comic artists have pictures of her. I found a biography of her written by one of the artists that did pictures of her and I became almost obsessed with her (that’s a bad word for it). She’s a different breed of woman. I didn’t get that way from drawings…if you see her real picture…she kind of taunts you from the pictures. Bettie Page has been photographed more than Marilyn Monroe and Cindy Crawford combined. I suppose two of the most "popular" women to be photographed. I did more research on my own to find out more things about her.
I’ll bet you did! I told you that if it hadn’t been for you and all that stuff about Bettie Page, I never would have gotten the joke on a show I was watching one night. It had to do with magazines full of Bettie Page…and I thought, “Hey! I know who she is! I get it! Thanks Adam!” (LOL)
I don’t even have most of her pictures. I keep them put away because Angie says we are supposed to be adults now. (laughs) I’ll never be an adult! If you read her biography her pictures were so popular, her pictures would get sold under the counter because there was no mainstream pornographic media until Playboy was around. She made it acceptable. She gave it an ‘okay’ and it didn’t seem so dirty. She gave it dignity.
Okay, back to the Dominatrix…how did you end up doing that?
I started visiting one when I was 20 years old…I didn’t really have a lot of luck with women on my part as I didn’t always know how to be…I learned about this from someone I already knew, about visiting a Dominatrix because he was going for some of the same reasons. He said they can help you understand what you felt was not abnormal. I never had sex with anyone until I met Angie. The Dominatrix made me feel accepted and that I was okay…that having a dominating woman was okay. My concern was that I didn’t want it to be sex because I did not want to have sex before I got married. But he dissolved that myth. The mistress and her slave do not have a sexual relationship as far as intercourse. Most of them don’t.
So it’s not really like they try to portray on TV.
It’s kind of a reciprocal relationship. The dominator gets pleasure from the pleasure you get from getting ‘torture’. There’s nothing like harmful torture. You find your boundaries.
Just for fun…do you have a tape measure?
I have one in the garage. Why?
Most guys know how ‘long’ theirs is…how long is yours?
I honestly don’t know….my wife says I have underestimated mine… I haven’t bought any condoms to check the measurement…my wife did and she knows! Do you want me to find out?
It was a joke…unless you want me to advertise it.
NO!
That’s good… keep it at home!!! Whew. And to go with that…I have noticed that your blog sometimes gets some pretty explicit comments on it. How do you feel about it?
I have never deleted a comment, because if I’m going to put a subject out there, I have to be willing to deal with it. I am not trying to elicit any attention and I might blow it off. That’s not what I’m looking for. I don’t know what I’m saying to cause them to comment like that. I guess I’m dense about what it is that I’m saying to cause those kind of comments.
I know I met you in chatroom and started checking out your blog after that…which was about April or May. But how long have you been on the blogstream? And what was the original purpose for you blog? And how has it changed?
I've been here since December of 2005, around the 8th I think.
The original purpose of my blog was to help, so to speak, people understand the legitimate literature that comic books are. Many people still think that they are for kids or geeks or just something negative. So what I planned to do, was to present different comic book characters/stories and show how they apply/mirror to real life situations. In fact, my first post, Power Girl, was to point out that just because women, and the male heroes, are unrealistically drawn, that does not mean that they are smut. It is a fantasy reading, and things aren't going to be realistic. That's why it is fiction.
Well, it has changed in that I got away from my comic book related posts. I went off on a tangent for a few days, and here they come! I was getting comments and hits that I wasn't getting before. Who’s to say that if I didn't change what I wrote, that anyone would be reading or knowing me.
But now I have two blogs, well three actually, so that I can post what I do on "WHAT WOULD YOU DO?" and post on "COMIC BOOK GEEKS 101". My third one is for video games, particularly the "MY FINAL FANTASY" series of games.
The two questions that I HAVE to ask…and I don’t like the first one because I worry about leaving someone out, hurting someone’s feelings…
What 5 bloggers would you most like to meet?
(All Bloggers Names Also Serve As Links To Their Blogs By Clicking Them)
I don’t know…there’s a lot of people. I know that there are so many people that I have talked to here and I don’t want to upset anyone for not being mentioned, but I don’t have to say anything about you, do I, HEATHER, because we talk, anyway.
WHIT (Whit’s Whitlings)
He writes some interesting stuff, he’s lived a long life and served in the war. He has lived such an eventful life, he has much insight to offer us youngin's. And I have learned a lot from reading his posts.
And SEVEN IS DARKER (Seven-is-What)
He is something else! He’s peculiar on a different scale than I am.
BIG SHANE (The He-Man Woman Hater’s Club)
I would truly have to meet Shane. We’ve developed a hell of a friendship…as peculiar as that may seem.
MARIA MUSIC (My Letter to the World)
Maria was the first one ever to comment on my blog when I first started doing this. And although she has deactivated her blog a few time (but it is active now) she still comes by and comments to me.
NIGHT BUG
(Girl and Dog in the City)
Miss NightBug is so cool, because, as I she reads/enjoys comic books, and that is something that we both share in common. Plus she is just toooo funny and an all around nice gal. I'm really starting to wonder why the men of her state just don't see that. She's super nice and super purdy.
And to add one more….VALKYRIE
(The Sword of Justice & Other Stuff)
Miss Valkyrie, has an incredible writing talent, and writes about some of the most interesting things. Her return comments always present a challenge to me, and it is awesome to debate with her, because she is civil and tolerant.
Any one in my bookmark list really!
I Love Nightbug’s blog…she sets it up so unusually! Unfortunately, I have not visited, or visited very little, the other blogs you mentioned. I guess I should get around the stream more!
What music’s in your CD player right now?
Pink Floyd - Dark Side of the Moon
Nickelback - The Long Road
Prince - Purple Rain
Soundtrack 3 Dog Night - Compilation CD
James Blunt - Back to Bedlam
Well… you listening to Prince is no surprise at all….I love the Nickelback and 3Dog Night…but James Blunt?
Okay Thank you for all the good information, Adam! Enjoy the rest of your quiet night and tell Angie ‘hello’ for me!
Have a great anniversary, too! Congrats!
HAPPY 7th ANNIVERSARY ADAM & ANGIE
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